At the Start of the Massage I will bring a music player, and play soft slow music, which is designed to help create a perfect atmosphere. I will also turn the lights down low, so that it is dim, but that you can see me in the dim lighting. Perhaps you would like me to undress you, slowly and carefully with lots of gentle touching, , caressing, light kisses on the face, eyes, ears, neck, shoulders, arms, hands, fingers, back chest and abdominal areas before I take you to my bed to begin your massage? We could undress each other if you like, spoiling each other with magic sensory overload, building up an unbelievably erotic charge of energy to add to your massage and of course your eventual climax!! You will now be lying face down on the towel and I will begin by pouring some warm oil on your back, and tenderly rubbing it in. I will use both hands and sensually excite the receptors of your back. I will massage you shoulders, arms and your neck. This will continue for a short while, and then I will start to work my way down your body, and down your legs. This process is to ensure that you completely relaxed I will probably gently touch your genitals as I caresses your inner thighs and bottom, but the focus is not in that are just yet, only a touch. I may then start to carry out a body to body massage. Not all masseuses do this, but when I do, it is very sensual and exciting. I will gently glide my breasts across your back. It is truly an amazing sensation. When I sense that you are ready, I will ask you to turn over and lie on your back. I will pour more warm oil on you, this time on your chest and arms, and gently massage the oil in. Then I will do the same on your legs and thighs. Again, I will continue the Tantric Massage, taking you deeper in to the Tantric experience. I may carry out the body to body contact, where my breasts glide across your body, and face, and my hair gently skimming across your body. I will sense when it is time for the final phase and that will be the Lingam Massage.
The Lingam Massage is the final focus of the Tantric. It is the focus of the energy and all that has been carried out so far, whereby the Lingam (penis) is massaged. I will draw down your foreskin, and pour some warm oil over the head of your lingam. I will then gently caress it, and glide my hand over your entire lingam and genitals. The sensation is out of this world. I will continue to work on the lingam, and I will sense when you are about to orgasm. If you are, I will back off, because I will try to bring you in and out of orgasmic state several times. This is known as “riding the wave”. Eventually, I will bring you to the point of orgasm, and I will not stop, and I will let you ejaculate, finishing off with the most amazing orgasm you may ever have had. It should be said, that an orgasm is not the goal of a Tantric Massage, but rather a bonus. However, it is rare for a man not to orgasm during the session. If however, you don’t orgasm that is ok too, because the entire process is to focus energies from within you, which have some rather beneficial health and emotional spin offs, together with general well being. A Tantric Massage is sheer delight. And eroticism of the highest standard.
When used as sexual stimulation, most men have reported stronger orgasms, achieved during the prostate massage and higher levels of sexual satisfaction. The prostate massage is slowly becoming an accepted practice and it could be performed by the therapist, who is using either a finger or a sex toy to stimulate the prostate gland. I will use my fingers when performing the prostate massage and usually the oil that I use makes the insertion of finger easier and more enjoyable.
BODY TO BODY MASSAGE
The movements of massage create a sensation of serene happiness and internal joy in a gentle world that allows us to feel that the hands touching us invade us, possess us, fulfill us and recognise us form the deepest part our being. A massage is like a magical spell...the sensations cannot be explained, only experienced. There are various reported health benefits such as improved urine flow and ejaculation and reduced pain or swelling of the prostate gland.
It reduces stress - both emotional and physical Stimulates and soothes the skin and nervous system Eases muscle tension and removes toxins from the body Keeps your body flexible and supple Boosts vitality and well-being.
WHAT IS SENSUAL MASSAGE
Sensual is a safe way to experience more health, comfort and pleasure in your body. It teaches you how to use intention, clear boundaries and choice to create a safe environment for your personal pleasure and empowerment. In sensual massage you learn how to use your breath and focus your awareness to increase sensations and deepen inner body well being.
Although a sensual massage may include touching of the genitals and breasts, it is not to be confused with sexual massage. A sexual massage is about the expectation of receiving genital stimulation to sexually excite and result in sexual release. Rather, the intent of a sensual is about loosing expectations of any ‘result’ allowing you to feel and enjoy your body more in each moment.
In sensual massage there is no goal of orgasm. The goal is to fully explore techniques of breath and mind-focus to bring a timeless and treasured awareness of body joy. You are coached in techniques that allow you to experience being relaxed and energized simultaneously. You enjoy deep and prolonged states of suspension from ordinary awareness. Whole body massage promotes sexual health, wellbeing and WISDOM.